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Some Financial Cheer for the Holidays

by Laura Rowley

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Posted on Tuesday, December 23, 2008, 12:00AM

I recognize that this year's holiday cheer may be dampened for families hard hit by the economic crisis. So I thought the best approach for my last column of 2008 would be to highlight some resources where consumers can find help, for free, with career and personal-finance issues. And I'll end with a story I've always loved about the meaning of money.

Help with Your Career

According to Challenger, Gray & Christmas, a Chicago-based outsourcing firm, layoffs in financial services could surpass 1 million in 2008. To help laid-off workers, Challenger is offering free phone consultations for job seekers on Dec. 29 and 30 from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. CST. For free advice, call (312) 332-5790.

Challenger expects heavy downsizing to continue through the first half of 2009, as measures to solve the financial crisis take time to work their way through the economy.

Meanwhile, job seekers have seen their searches lengthen by nearly a month, according to the Challenger Job Market Index. The median job search among those winning positions in the third quarter lasted nearly 4.4 months. That's one reason why boosting your emergency fund makes sense in a recession. Click here for other ideas to help recession-proof your finances.

Help with Your Retirement Planning

Financial markets have delivered a crushing blow to the 401(k) plans of millions of American investors, especially those in or near retirement. If you're concerned about building and protecting your nest egg, the National Association of Personal Financial Advisors (NAPFA) and Kiplinger's Personal Finance magazine are offering two "Jump-Start Your Retirement Plan" days to help.

On Tuesday, Jan. 13, and Friday, Jan. 30, fee-only financial advisers who are members of NAPFA will take your personal-finance questions by phone and online and provide free advice.

These planners, well versed in investments, taxes, insurance, estate planning, and saving for college and retirement, typically charge clients $150 to $300 an hour. To participate in a discussion with an advisor, call (888) 919-2345 toll-free or go to Kiplinger's website on Jan. 13 or Jan. 30 anytime from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. EST. (Go to the NAPFA website to see the qualifications of these planners.)

Help with Foreclosure

The economic crisis has also taken its toll on home values, which have fallen 17 percent nationwide this year, the sharpest drop in 50 years according to Standard & Poor's Case-Shiller Home Price Index. An estimated 1 in 10 homeowners are either delinquent on their mortgage or in foreclosure.

If your home is at risk, contact a certified housing counselor affiliated with the National Foundation for Credit Counseling by calling its toll-free number, (866) 845-2227. Its Homeowner Crisis Resource Center also offers a free educational DVD called "Avoiding Foreclosure," which shows homeowners how to avoid getting taken in a "rescue" scam. For more, visit their website.

Easing Your Own Credit Crunch

On Dec. 18, the Federal Reserve Board voted to adopt sweeping regulatory reforms on the credit card industry, the most important set of changes in decades. Credit card companies have a year to comply with the new rules, which include limiting interest-rate hikes and over-limit fees; making credit terms more clear; and eliminating double-cycle billing and universal default (the practice of raising your rate when you're late with another bill), among other measures.

While the action will provide better consumer protection going forward, millions of Americans are being squeezed right now and are still struggling to pay down their debt. Americans' credit card debt is approaching $1 trillion, and earlier this year late payments on consumer loans rose to a 16-year high.

Be wary of debt consolidators, especially for-profit ones, who may exacerbate your credit problems. Instead, check out DebtAdvice, and find a local counselor who will offer free budget counseling and debt-management services.

A Money Story

Finally, I want to share a story told by Sister Maria Jose Hobday, a Franciscan nun and author who has written and lectured internationally for 30 years on Native American spirituality, prayer, and simplicity. In the 1930s, her family was living on the edge of poverty:

"One Saturday evening I was working late on my homework. I was in the living room, my brothers were outside with their friends, and my parents were in the kitchen, discussing our financial situation. It was very quiet, and I found myself more and more following the kitchen conversation rather than attending to my homework. Mama and Daddy were talking about what had to be paid for during the week, and there was very little money -- a few dollars.

"As I listened, I became more and more anxious, realizing there was not enough to go around. They spoke of school needs, of fuel bills, of food. Suddenly the conversation stopped, and my mother came into the room where I was studying. She put the money -- a couple of bills and a handful of change -- on the desk. ‘Here,' she said, ‘go find two or three of your brothers and run to the drugstore before it closes. Use this money to buy strawberry ice cream.' I was astonished! I was a smart little girl, I knew we needed this money for essentials. So I objected. ‘What? We have to use this to pay bills, Mama, to buy school things. We can't spend this on ice cream!' Then I added, ‘I'm going to ask Daddy.' So I went to my father, telling him what Mother had asked me to do. Daddy looked at me for a moment, then threw back his head and laughed. ‘You mother is right, honey,' he said. ‘When we get this worried and upset about a few dollars, we are better off having nothing at all. We can't solve all the problems, so maybe we should celebrate instead. Do as your mother says.'

"So I collected my brothers and went to the drugstore. In those days, you could get a lot of ice cream for a few dollars, and we came home with our arms full of packages. My mother had set the table, made fresh coffee, put out what cookies we had and invited the neighbors. It was a great party! I do not remember what happened concerning other needs, but I remember the freedom and fun of that evening. I thought about that evening many times, and came to realize that spending a little money for pleasure was not irresponsible. It was a matter of survival of the spirit. The bills must have been paid; we made it through the weeks and months that followed. I learned my parents were not going to allow money to dominate them. I learned something of the value of money, of its use. I saw that of itself it was not important but that my attitude toward it affected my own spirit, could reduce me to powerlessness or give me power of soul."

Wishing you power of soul in abundance in the New Year.

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  • Yahoo! Finance User - Monday, December 29, 2008, 3:14PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    If your bills are paid it is one thing to be frivilous with your money. It's your money and it's no one else's business what you do with it. However, if you can't pay your bills, it is the height of irresponsibility to waste any amount of money, no matter how small. At that point it isn't your money, it is money that is rightfully owed to someone else. If you don't like it, TRY PAYING YOUR BILLS and people won't be critical of how you spend your money. They ought to bring back debtor's prison, maybe that will wake people up and force them to be fiscally responsible.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Monday, December 29, 2008, 2:14PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    There is a difference between a plasma TV splurge if you can't make your bills, and ice cream. Get off your high horse and have some fun! not on credit... be responsible and enjoy life. I took my kids to a local park to walk around in nature (free) followed by play time at the local YMCA (free with membership dues) and treated them, and some extended family to brownies - home made, at home for about $.50. Hey, I could spend my LIFE working for the next penny, and I would have a lot more if I did... But experiences, like a party, or home made brownies are what people remember. Did I buy a plasma TV? No. Did I spend a few bucks between gas, baking, utilities, overhead for our home... Yup. Did I need to, no. Am I glad that I did, yes.

  • wgaf - Monday, December 29, 2008, 1:47PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 2/5

    I suppose for some this blog is therapeutic and/or has valuable links and is not reminicsent of non-expert babble.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Monday, December 29, 2008, 1:18PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Usually I am very impressed by Laura's column and this one was good too till it got to the Strawberry ice cream story. If the intent was to convey that money isn't everything and end all in life, the story doesn't convey that very well. I wish she had used a different / better example-story. This conveys, "don't worry, be happy, stick your heads in the sand everything will sort out by itself". The story does say, "that spending a little money for pleasure was not irresponsible", however, most Americans in this day and age will miss out the fine print "little money". On one hand consumers are facing foreclosures, defaults on credit card, auto and student loans and on the other hand, they still continue to spend like losing gamblers.

  • Mark - Monday, December 29, 2008, 12:49PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    Yet another example of how we, as American citizens, don't plan accordingly when it comes to financial responsibility & accountability. Considering what has transpired in 2008 clearly American needs to focus more on the Investment portion of the macroeconomic formula. Please stop encouraging more consumer spending on non-essential goods or services.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Monday, December 29, 2008, 12:20PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    What a nice article about strawberry ice cream...and very little else.

  • Lee - Monday, December 29, 2008, 11:51AM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    Last night I listened to a woman who has 3 kids and can no longer make her mortgage payment - yet she was on the internet trying to find the best deal on a CRUISE for next year! ARE PEOPLE REALLY THIS STUPID? I guess so - what can one expect when we have a government who just prints money when they want to spend - not a good example.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Monday, December 29, 2008, 11:34AM ET  Report Abuse

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    I had ''lashed out'' (via comment) at this author over her commentary about ''Get Happy or Happier Friends.'' As I read this commentary, I thought to myself ''Ok, at least I can say something nice about this one'' - (and I was about to give her 4 Stars). THEN I reached her ''Money Story''. HOLY CRAP!!! This woman thinks that telling everyone to spend their money and not worry about bills is a ''heartwarming'' way to end to a horrible year? Anyone who buys into that crap is DOOMED!!! Freaking DOOMED!!! Do you hear me? DOOMED!!! Sometimes I truly believe we Americans DESERVE what IS coming! Unbelievable tripe is what this is!

  • r - Monday, December 29, 2008, 10:59AM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Excellent article - Happy New Year!

  • Steve - Monday, December 29, 2008, 10:05AM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    Another worthless piece by Rowley. Forget the bills, har har har, go buy ice cream instead! Don't worry, be happy! Live for today! Should be in the "Life" or the "Navel gazing garbage instead of finance related issues" section.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Monday, December 29, 2008, 4:09AM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    stupid nonsense....belongs in the knitting section

  • Philad - Sunday, December 28, 2008, 8:40PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Wow, is this Yahoo? Why is there an uplifting, sensible article here?!

  • GeraldK - Sunday, December 28, 2008, 8:17PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    This is a good one!

  • SANTA SEZ.... - Sunday, December 28, 2008, 2:36PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    10 STARS Laura you have been blowing me away with your great writing as of late. You seem to know what is going on more than anyone in the media AND you are giving useful phone number where people can get help and direction.....AND you top it off with an upbeat inspirational story that helps keep what is really important in focus. I would give you 10 stars if it was possible.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Sunday, December 28, 2008, 1:14PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Why are people giving bad ratings with comments which have nothing to do with the column? Write / email your Congressional representatives instead to express your anger about the bailouts.

  • WCS - Sunday, December 28, 2008, 6:46AM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 2/5

    I want to see appraisors, brokers and mortgage Ceo's that encouraged bad loans PAY BACK

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Saturday, December 27, 2008, 9:32PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 2/5

    People who made millions of dollars in finance and investment before the financial crisis sold their soul and the country to the devil...

  • popistoc - Saturday, December 27, 2008, 6:36PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    fantastic!

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, December 26, 2008, 9:22PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    "Middle class, hardworking folk, educated folk of this country have every right to be angry. I'm glad to see the anger. At least total complacency has not won out. Anger is what created this grand experiment in the first place. "Don't Tread On Me." Ring a bell? Oh wait, maybe not. That one has been written out of the history books. We need to take a good look at our political system and fix pronto.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, December 26, 2008, 9:19PM ET  Report Abuse

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    dubosejack...there is only ONE president right now...and he is on a 60 day walk about and is leaving this mess for Obama and those to come. You must be one of those people that expects this to be fixed in an instant...ain't gonna happen quickly. But first lets jail all the SOB's that lied, cheated and then some to get us to this point...

  • Jack - Friday, December 26, 2008, 5:38PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Nabobs of negativity. I guess Obama gets a big fat vote of NO CONFIDENCE for this holiday spending season, huh?

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, December 26, 2008, 4:22PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Thanks Laura for this excellent piece. It's both useful and entertaining, as most of your writings.

  • finviewer - Friday, December 26, 2008, 3:31PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Thank-you for providing links and information on so many free resources for people having trouble during this time.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, December 26, 2008, 3:12PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 3/5

    The miserable sad-sacks are back it. If you don't wish to read something positive, why not just click on past the column? Or does it make you less miserable to try and bring everyone else down?

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, December 26, 2008, 3:00PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    I am Spartacus

  • Ronald - Friday, December 26, 2008, 2:50PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    As the late,great, comedian, Joe E. Brown once said, Money doesn't buy everything, It doesn't buy "poverty"!

  • John - Friday, December 26, 2008, 2:20PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    What?!!? I must be confused, thought this was a finance site...maybe Ms. Rowley has been going heavy on the eggnog...What does Sister Stupido's story doing here. Story was great up until Sister's inspirational story to kill your soul! The moral should be the family wasn't as bad off as she thought so got to keep a roof. Buying high priced ice cream with the rent money, and having a big party for the neighbors...might as we be drug addicts with a serious Jones matching complex. Pecisely what has and is ruining the country!

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, December 26, 2008, 1:49PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    A very appropriate time for the story. Thanks!

  • EuplioF - Friday, December 26, 2008, 1:42PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    ... and you too, Laura. I think sometime we need more happiness than money. Buon 2009 a te ed ai tuoi cari, Giuseppe

  • Tom - Friday, December 26, 2008, 12:38PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Positive attitude helps always!!! Tom

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