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Group Getaways Spread the Love -- and the Cost

by Laura Rowley

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Posted on Thursday, March 15, 2007, 12:00AM

We convened over minty mojitos in an authentic Cuban restaurant in Miami Beach, Fla. -- 24 women in their 30s and 40s sharing a long dining table. Someone did a quick count and figured out we had 63 children between us. By my own estimate, we had easily twice as many pairs of high heels in our luggage.

It was my second official girlfriends' getaway -- a dozen women from New Jersey meeting up with a dozen women from the Midwest, college friends of the trip organizer. (The first trip was with my sisters.)

The three-and-a-half-day vacation involved running on the beach, eating fantastic food, and hanging out by the pool, with the occasional celebrity sighting (including Jeremy Shockey of the New York Giants, who graciously posed for photos).

Group Travel Made Easy

Women-only getaways are a fast-growing trend, industry observers say. A survey of 1,500 women conducted last year by Impulse Research found that half had taken a women-only trip in the last three years, according to Varda Novick, vice president of the Los Angeles-based research firm. Nearly 90 percent of those surveyed said they had another trip in the offing, or would like to take one, Novick found.

Meanwhile, web sites like Groople and I'm in! are making the logistics of group travel easier to manage.

"We've seen an uptick in girlfriend getaways," says Mike Stacy, president of Groople, a four-year-old travel web site for groups that combines traditional search tools with social networking capabilities.

Users tell Groople what kind of group they are (friends, wedding, youth sports), and the site narrows the selections to appropriate lodgings. The trip organizer can then sort picks by amenities and price, and send the selections to group members to vote and comment.

Groople users typically plan their trips two months in advance, travel with 19 people on average, and spend 3.5 days away. The budget: $1,800 a person.

For Women Only

Demographics are feeding the phenomenon, Stacy adds. "If you look at the generation coming up, and the popularity of MySpace and YouTube, it's all about people getting together," says Stacy. "The younger generation has a hard time doing anything without their friends. The other end of the spectrum is retirees who travel with their friends."

Stacy says the most popular girls' getaway destinations are all-inclusive resorts, spas, casinos, and major cities like Miami, New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, and Las Vegas. "We're also starting to see a little uptick in adventure-oriented girlfriend getaways," he adds.

The veteran of the adventure travel business is Susan Eckert, who started running Adventure Women Inc. in 1982. "I had no competition 25 years ago," she says. "Now there are 200 to 300 companies doing trips specifically for women."

This year her company will lead 20 expeditions, from a Bhutan trek in the Himalayas to safaris in Botswana and Zambia to sailing and snorkeling in the British Virgin Islands. Other women-only travel sites include The Women's Travel Club.

For those who seek a happy medium between dodging silverback gorillas and vegetating in a cabana reading chick-lit, alternative themes in girlfriend travel abound, according to Rhonda Hostetler, founder of Girlaway. The former travel software developer for Microsoft offers ideas on culinary weekends, shopping excursions, and crafts retreats on her blog.

Luxury on a Budget

Given the economies of scale, traveling with friends can be a surprisingly affordable venture, Hostetler notes. "One of nice things is you can afford a better experience than if went on vacation with your family because you're splitting the cost," she says. "If you have a group of three to four women, you can pool your resources on discounts -- AAA, corporate discounts, and so on."

Hostetler has been going on getaways with her three sisters for 20 years. On one family trip, one of Hostetler's sisters used her corporate discount at the Ritz-Carlton, Huntington Hotel & Spa in Pasadena, which offers 23 acres of gardens, an Olympic-size swimming pool, and a full-service spa.

The group ended up getting the Ritz for slightly more than the price of a nearby Holiday Inn. Luxury hotels also tend to offer full-service spas and free fitness classes.

In South Beach, we stayed at a five-star hotel with a balcony and a gorgeous ocean view. Four of us shared the room, dropping the price per person to about $120 a night.

The upside of a luxury hotel is the preponderance of freebies -- copies of the New York Times and the Wall Street Journal at the concierge desk, and fruit, power bars, coffee, and bottled water in the fitness center. By splitting two private cabanas 24 ways, we had a permanent beachhead by the pool, with snacks included.

Dining out can be tricky with a larger group, since most smaller or high-volume restaurants don't want two-dozen women chatting over dessert for hours. Our trip organizer placed her trust in the hotel concierge, who came up with a memorable mix -- the quiet, traditional Cuban bistro; a stylish seafood grill with live entertainment; and an Asian restaurant featuring traditional kushiyaki-style dishes. (We went our separate ways for breakfast and lunch.)

Packaged Pleasure

The popularity of the girls' getaway trend has prompted some hotels to offer specifically tailored deals (airfare not included). Here are a few examples:

Through early April, the Teton Mountain Lodge in Jackson Hole, Wyo., is offering its "10-to-1 Gal's Getaway" (referring to the ratio of men to women during the ski season). Travelers can book a five-night stay in a two-story suite with four beds in three separate rooms, a kitchen, and living area.

The package includes four days of lift tickets to Jackson Hole Mountain Resort; a group visit to the lodge's spa for a post-ski massage; and a daily breakfast buffet for $1,010 per person (based on four-person occupancy).

The Aqua Hotel in Miami Beach offers the $999 "Girls Gone SoBe" package, offering two nights for four women in a suite; champagne, cheeses, chocolate, and a selection of bedtime reading; a morning on mopeds; and a limo service from 10 p.m. to midnight, with VIP passes for "hot" clubs. The "morning after headache basket" includes aspirin served with Kahlua milkshakes.

The Hotel Solamar in San Diego offers the "Girlfriends Relax and Rejuvenate Package" for $385 a night, including deluxe accommodations; one 40-minute massage per person; two tickets to the San Diego Museum of Art; and a welcome basket of spa products. A two-night minimum is required.

A final tip: Talk to your roommates about their nocturnal habits (snoring, sleepwalking, or needing the television on to fall asleep), and bring earplugs. Eckert of Adventure Women says that on her trips, every time the group switches hotels, they switch roommates. "You're not with the same person all the time unless you want to be," she says, adding, "if we find someone who snores a lot, we try to find another snorer and put them together."

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  • Yahoo! Finance User - Saturday, March 17, 2007, 4:48PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    Boring; first bad rating I've ever given you!

  • Robert K - Saturday, March 17, 2007, 4:00PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    Men have always gone away on weekend fishing or hunting trips while the wife stayed home with the kids. I've gone on such trips and my wife has gone on her trips with her female friends (with the kids, I might add). I wish I did not have to share the planet with the "men" who made the lesbian-baiting comments (are you that fragile?) and trash women for doing what men have been doing for ages. While our wives never had to worry about me and my buddies, I have to wonder about the guys who are so threatened that they left such venomous messages. When these woman-haters went off on their trips with the guys, did anything happen after a few beers? Methinks thou dost protest too much. Sounds like the pot calling the kettle black!

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Saturday, March 17, 2007, 3:54PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    I am a single mother on a limited budget. I recently went to Branson with a group of friends. We spent less than $300 a person and had a great time. We have already started planning a trip for next year. I think this is a wonderful idea for everyone - male or female.

  • Kali A - Saturday, March 17, 2007, 1:00PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 3/5

    Granted, this is a little high-end in the price range. But seriously, I grew up with my grandfather (who raised me) taking weekend camping trips with some of his male friends. This really isn't any different. Yes, it can be abused by some women. Just as those "weekend trips" could be abused by some men. *shrugs* That's life. Both sexes need to get away and relax sometimes...and both tend to worry about the other (sorry guys, but women tend to worry more) - if they're having fun, relaxing, what they're thinking, etc.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Saturday, March 17, 2007, 12:20PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Nice. I knew we'd have the occasional blind chauvinist who appearantly can't see that - oh yes - women actually work! Ohmygosh! I DO actually spend MY OWN MONEY! Wow. crazy.

  • Mark - Saturday, March 17, 2007, 12:16PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Go away please, anywhere, as often as possible, men can't stand it anymore. It's already impossible to watch daytime TV and the news with programming, reporting and commercials so focused on female issues and the mind numbing pandering. It's nauseating to read, watch and listen to all the "we deserve it" female programming such as this. Women have already taken over the Starbucks experience where you feel safe to talk, gossip and giggle at decibel levels as high as the screaming and crying kids you tote around. I'm so sick of watching women on their cellphones everywhere, especially in cars, yakking it up. Please go away on your women's only little trips so we can get so relief from the constant egocentrism and "I deserve it" bollacks.

  • __A_YAHOO_USER__ - Saturday, March 17, 2007, 5:35AM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 2/5

    The caption should actually read, "Not taking your husbands money....the key to a cheap womens only trip". Easy to spend on BS when its not your money.

  • April - Friday, March 16, 2007, 11:59PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    Thankfully, I have lots of girlfriends with whom to travel, but this article has some good resources for people who don't already have that. To those who yawn at girls only, you don't know what you're missing. Besides, the women I know are MUCH more into traveling than the guys.

  • kathy h - Friday, March 16, 2007, 9:54PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    Men..get over your egos for a second and you would see that these trips just are times that woman need...just as men have had for years. Think about it...a bunch of women on a trip together....talking the whole time they are there....pretty much ignoring the men around them...coming home more refreshed than they had been in years. When you travel with your husband, you worry about him having a good time, enjoying the things you do...when you travel with a group of women friends, you don't have to worry about that. If some of the girls want to go relax at the pool...great. If some want to go to a scenic trip...even better. Its a time for them to not have to think about or worry about working 40 hours..running home and getting meals ready...getting kids ready for bed...etc. Believe me...they will come back a more refreshed and fun wife.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, March 16, 2007, 9:45PM ET  Report Abuse

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    lighten up a bit guys...the girls wont be gone for a lifetime!!! a week or just a mere few days with the kids certainly wont kill you!!!..if u really care you would let her enjoy a well deserved vacation away from home and family stress..be considerate for once

  • Christopher - Friday, March 16, 2007, 9:40PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    It is nice to see that mother's are finding economical ways to vacation by traveling in groups of other woman. This provides seeing places without as much cost as going alone and provides reassurance to men at home that their wives are safe and less likely to fall into a romantic situation because the traveling groups are women only.

  • Jeffery - Friday, March 16, 2007, 8:54PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Wait.. So the trend now is that women can abandon their husband and family, use up money and run around with their friends on a beach and meet pro baseball players while her spouse works a full week and takes care of the kids? What kind of nonsense is this? Does this women's husband get to go to Vegas with a load of his guy friends, meet a model and get a massage? What happened to going to college, getting things out of your system and settling down for a few years, sucking it up and sacrificing a little by taking a crappy vacation to D.C. or Mount Rushmore with the family?

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, March 16, 2007, 8:52PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 2/5

    I read the first paragragh and had to reread it. It was very dry and not to the point. I rated it too quick, should have given it a one star.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, March 16, 2007, 8:48PM ET  Report Abuse

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    30 years ago, when guys did this, it was called "sexist." Maybe one day someone can explain why men's clubs and all-male activities are sexist and illegal but female clubs and all-female activities are not sexist and are legal -- in fact, celebrated as in this article.

  • DinaBeena - Friday, March 16, 2007, 8:46PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    I loved this article!! travel friends= what more could you ask for? i loved the links as well :)

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, March 16, 2007, 8:42PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Seems pretty much like common sense to me.....

  • LIZETH - Friday, March 16, 2007, 8:31PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    I think this is great, I'm orginizing an all girls getaway to puerto rico next month with 4 of my girlfriends, I didn't even know there was places that will help orginize these kind of trips or that there is actually hotels packages for an all girls getaway.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, March 16, 2007, 8:29PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    This sounds like a blast to get together with old girlfriends!!! Its always great to get away sometime other than the spouse!

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, March 16, 2007, 8:27PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Just because you people are too old to get out there and have fun with something like this doesn't mean other people won't. I personally thought this article was very informative. Stop being so critical and learn to live a little. Geez.

  • DebbieJ - Friday, March 16, 2007, 8:14PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 3/5

    Not into the high heels and girl giggles at the spa. But the article was helpful in linking to websites that include a social networking element and common interests among travelers.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, March 16, 2007, 8:13PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    Get a life. Girls only.... yawn....

  • Maria S - Friday, March 16, 2007, 8:08PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 2/5

    Girls only? BORING

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, March 16, 2007, 6:19PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 2/5

    I can appreciate a good article with a narrow focus, but there must be "guy-only" services as well. Then again, maybe it's simply Lasvegas.com. ha-ha. c-

  • LisaM - Friday, March 16, 2007, 6:01PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 3/5

    If I was into heavy social interaction, this would be a great suggestion. I'm not. I'm a woman who travels alone by choice. Still, for a lot of women, this sounds like it would be a lot of fun and a way to have a REAL vacation at a lower price.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, March 16, 2007, 4:06PM ET  Report Abuse

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    My wife and her friends have been doing this for 15 or so years, but in a more economical style eg renting a lakeside cabin, doing the cooking themselves for the most part and drinking store bought wine or other alcoholic beverages. The reports have always been very positive and I expect the dynamics are a lot different than going as couples such as class or family reunions. The opportunities are only limited by your imagination, cash and the personal preferences of the group and include cruises, cooking schools in France, hiking in the Rockies. It seems to be a way for the women to re-establish or maintain their friendships as we move all over the country.

  • Juliette - Friday, March 16, 2007, 2:48PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    I think it is great that there are more women out there willing to take care of themselves by taking time for fun. I am unsure of why some would have a problem with an article written geared towards women.

  • Yahoo User - Friday, March 16, 2007, 2:28PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    People are so predictable! Commenters complain when Yahoo Finance writers are too general and now they complain when the writers are being specific/specialized! Stop being so quick to complain and enjoy the articles. I'm a guy and I thought this was well written with good solid recommendations/advice.

  • freakyz - Friday, March 16, 2007, 2:25PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    Laura is usually pretty good. What about people with Y chromosomes?

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, March 16, 2007, 12:41PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Love this! Thanks for including the links.

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