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Get Rational About Irrational Money Moves

by Laura Rowley

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Posted on Wednesday, February 20, 2008, 12:00AM

Professor Dan Ariely of MIT has long been fascinated by the things that really influence our daily decisions, as opposed to what we think influences them.

At age 18, Ariely was burned over 70 percent of his body in an accident while serving in the Israeli army. He spent three years in the hospital undergoing excruciating operations. That experience turned him into a close observer of human behavior.

Dependable Irrationality

Traditional economic theory presumes people are rational, or capable of making the right decisions to maximize their own welfare. But behavioral economists like Ariely suggest that people are often irrational in their decision-making.

What's more, Ariely argues, people are predictably irrational -- their irrational behavior is neither random nor senseless, but occurs the same way, over and over. Identifying irrational patterns can help us change our behavior.

That's the premise of Ariely's new book, "Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces that Shape Our Decisions." In it, he examines a variety of behaviors, such as why many people procrastinate in saving for the future; why we make purchases we later regret; why we can't think clearly when we're emotionally aroused (which can happen as often in a mall as anywhere else); and why we can't stop comparing ourselves to our neighbors.

It's All Relative

For starters, it's important to recognize that the brain has a hard time assigning an abstract value to things. So it focuses on relativity instead.

Let's say you're considering adding a screened-in porch onto your home. "Should you pay $200 a square foot to get another 100 square feet or not? This is actually a very hard computation to make," says Ariely. "You're supposed to think about all the other things you can do with $20,000; how much the space will increase your quality of life, how much stress [the construction] will create on everyone."

As a result, the brain shortcuts to comparing things that are easily comparable and does a relative calculation instead. "We see a neighbor who has a screened-in porch and say, 'That's exactly what's missing from my life to become happy,'" says Ariely. "The relativity is a substitute to doing the real calculation."

Increase Your Scope

Relativity makes us do weird things, Ariely says. We might not think twice about paying $3,000 to upgrade to leather seats in a $25,000 car, but we won't spend $3,000 on a new leather sofa -- even though we might actually spend more time couch surfing than driving. We'll add $200 to the cost of a $5,000 renovation project for upgrades, but also clip a 25¢ coupon for a $1 can of soup.

There's no way around relative thinking, Ariely says, "but we can expand the circle of relativity to include more things that really matter to us. Think about what else you're giving up for $20,000 -- it could be five years of one-week vacations in Hawaii, or paying off your credit cards and having more wealth in the future.

"The trick in relativity is to understand that we do it and increase the scope of relative comparison," Ariely continues. "It's not a magic way of solving the relativity problem, but it is a way to try and make it a bit more representative of our preferences."

Know What You Value

A key here is to get crystal clear on your deeper values.

If you know, for example, that your highest values include living debt-free, education, and creating memorable experiences with family and friends, you'll be more apt to make smarter comparisons: The porch versus enrichment classes for yourself or the kids, paying off a loan, or taking an annual trip that adds up to a lifetime of memories.

And while relativity helps us make decisions, it can also make us miserable, Ariely writes, because jealousy and envy are often the consequences of comparison. The trick is knowing when to widen the circle of relativity (compare that screened-in porch to all the other things you value) and when to narrow the circle of relativity (don't compare your net worth to anything but your own goals).

It's All Arbitrary

Another set of irrational -- and predictable -- behaviors occurs around what Ariely calls "arbitrary coherence."

"We have a very hard time computing the inherent pleasure that things will give us -- that's the arbitrary part," says Ariely. "Coherence occurs once we've made the decision. We assume it's reasonable and we make future decisions in a coherent manner." In other words, initial prices are arbitrary, but once they're established in our minds they shape future prices and make them coherent.

For example, people who move from high-cost cities to low-cost cities (New York to Pittsburgh, say) will often spend the same amount on housing because they're anchored to the prices they previously paid. (The solution? Rent until you readjust to the new context, and create new anchors.)

The Market Decides

The funniest part of arbitrary coherence is that the brain will hook onto random anchors.

In one experiment, Ariely had his students bid on a number of items listed on a sheet of paper -- a cordless keyboard and mouse; a bottle of wine; a design book; and a box of chocolates. But first he had the students write down the last two digits of their Social Security numbers at the top of a page.

Weirdly, the students who had Social Security numbers that ended in high digits -- from 80 to 99 -- bid from 216 to 346 percent higher than students whose social security numbers ended in the lowest numbers (1 to 20).

The bottom line is that what consumers are willing to pay can be easily manipulated because we don't have a good handle on our preferences, or the prices we're willing to pay, Ariely notes. Standard economic theory suggests that forces of supply and demand are independent, and that consumers' willingness to pay is what influences market prices. In reality, it's the market prices themselves that influence consumers' willingness to pay.

Thus first decisions resonate over a long sequence of subsequent decisions. "You can't say, 'Well, I'll just try it once and see how it is,'" says Ariely. "We have to realize that the first decision we make actually matters a lot. And the second thing is to look back into our habits and say, 'How did we get into this situation that we have this many cars or this size house? Do we really value things in the way we pay for them, or was it a random starting point?'"

Anticipating Irrationality

Moreover, be conscious about "trading up" to a new level of consumption, because it's unlikely you'll ever go back, Ariely says. And take time to occasionally inventory your anchors. Look at choices that once seemed completely reasonable; do they still make sense in your current financial situation?

In some money situations, thinking should be removed from the process -- like saving for retirement, Ariely says. A variety of studies have found that forcing constructive behavior by automating a decision -- such as having money taken out of a paycheck and invested for retirement week after week -- solves the problem of procrastination.

Although irrationality is commonplace, Ariely writes, it doesn't mean we're helpless: "Once we understand when and where we may make erroneous decisions, we can try to be more vigilant, force ourselves to think differently about these decisions, or use technology to overcome our inherent shortcomings."

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  • Yahoo! Finance User - Monday, February 25, 2008, 4:30PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Thanks, Laura. I've learned something that helps make some sense of my decision making.

  • Loyd - Monday, February 25, 2008, 3:10PM ET  Report Abuse

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    LAST TWO DIGITS OF SOCIAL SECURITY NUMBER INFLUENCES THE BIDDING PROCESS. RIDICULOUS. VERY POOR ARTICLE FOR INTELLIGENT PEOPLE TO READ-

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Monday, February 25, 2008, 12:18PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Laura, thanks for this and all your other fine articles. I recently retired, and my wife and I are presently in the middle of these issues. Hopefully this will open her eyes.

  • Terry M - Monday, February 25, 2008, 10:50AM ET  Report Abuse

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    Excellent! (as usual!) Especially the "All Relative" part. A family member actually has a good business, but constantly compares himself to OTHER people in the business. I'm afraid he's going into debt to try to keep up with the others.

  • JohnF - Sunday, February 24, 2008, 6:15PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Great comments, Laura! Could Yahoo PLEASE give us a chance to comment on some of the articles that appear on website besides these advisors. I have some opinions about the credit card story concerning Bank of America that I would like to talk about. Thanks.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Sunday, February 24, 2008, 1:39AM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Another gem by Laura. I look forward to her articles every week. Always good substance.

  • Lee & Sherri Cooper - Saturday, February 23, 2008, 9:15PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    That's a great statement in the final paragraph. Another person who thinks that "making it automatic" takes saving out of our imperfectly greedy hands. Bravo!!

  • UtorVita - Saturday, February 23, 2008, 2:59PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Fun read!

  • Alfred - Saturday, February 23, 2008, 2:04AM ET  Report Abuse

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    Had it not been for the examples,this article would be mostly incoherent.Most people are easily bored with someone who complicates a simple idea.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Saturday, February 23, 2008, 12:38AM ET  Report Abuse

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    Great article. People aren't always rational when it comes to their their spending priorities. But even knowing that, it's sometimes hard to avoid being impulsive or irrational. That's what Madison Ave. is all about, right? Sure, I can be entirely rational when it comes to buying cornflakes. I buy whatever is on sale and don't think twice about it. The same with most everyday items. And yet I can be silly about certain other purchases. I know better, but I do it anyway because it makes me feel good. For example, I might buy the $1200 camera lens instead of the $600 lens. Is one $600 better than the other? Probably not. Did I sit around and think about what else I could do with the money? Probably not. Maybe we're all that way about something or other.

  • K - Friday, February 22, 2008, 10:13AM ET  Report Abuse

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    Excellent! I am an Investment Advisor. Since I am compensated by my clients for providing advice and managing their wealth (as opposed to selling financial products for a brokerage/insurance co.) I am able to take the time to explore these and similar topics with my clients. I would say almost without question that understanding ones own psychology and behavior when it comes to money and investing will have a greater impact on net worth then timing the markets or chasing performance. But hey, If you don't believe me- there are plenty of people advertising right here on Yahoo Finance that will play upon the emotions of fear and greed and help you loose your money in the process :)

  • PaterniqueA - Friday, February 22, 2008, 9:43AM ET  Report Abuse

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    Great article, currently I am trying to convince my x-girlfriend that I share a house with that its unrise to buy a new body style car thats worth 20 thousand dollar car when she already has a car thats paid off. I showed her this article but it had no effects on her decision. This is when I noticed the flaw in this article, it does not take into account the stupid people of the world that continue to make bad decisions and ruin the economy. I tried to explain to her that she was acting out on emotions and that she would be happier with 20k in the bank instead.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, February 22, 2008, 6:37AM ET  Report Abuse

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    jdenczek, the point is that you decide how to spend the money on what you value most. Ariely is saying don't buy a porch because your neighbor has one, buy one because you want and value one. Likewise, don't go on an Hawaii vacation because this article says to, go on one because you want to. Figure out what you value and spend your money there, rather than spending money just because everyone around you is buying plasma tvs, or new BMWs, or porches, or whatever.

  • hasnathullah - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 7:50PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    laura is doing most of the time.she writes fantastic stuff.

  • Mary - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 7:12PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Reminds me about the stock market. People will buy all the way down and then sell at the low. When actually they should sell now at the high and then buy when the Dow is at 7000. But then I would never make any money if they did that. Mary of the Virgin Islands

  • Jason T - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 4:56PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 2/5

    Cliff notes...people have emotions. I just saved you some time.

  • Paul - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 3:54PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Another excellent article Laura. It really hits home. Thanks!

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 3:27PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    I think this article is great, but djt0704, your response made me laugh : ) There's a lot of truth to what you say...

  • TT - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 3:17PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Predictable irrationality is just a fancy name for "human stupidity." These "irrational" decision are just dumb things people do. Why did you buy a house you can't afford? Cuz you're dumb. Why did you take out home equity to pay for a vacation when you don't have money for your kids' college? Cuz you're dumb. Why do you carry a balance on your credit card with 18% APR? Cuz you're dumb. Many people do dumb things. That's the long and short of it. It's not science.

  • A Publius in training - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 2:50PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    This article may explain the many annoying commericals on TV, the radio, and at the checkout stand. It would also appear that this article indicates that hard science/math and critical thinking skills should be taught as applicable to most aspects of life either by parents and/or schools.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 2:21PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    That man is richest whose pleasures are the cheapest.--HDT

  • Steven - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 2:07PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 3/5

    Good insights, but maybe Yahoo should have just paid Ariely to write it.

  • Stephen - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 1:38PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    I bet everyone reading this article has in their life a situation where the happiest people they know don't have much money or possesions. I's so beautifully ironic.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 1:28PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Good stuff, but a rational person should have noticed this in themselves if they've ever shopped in more than 1 stores for the same type stuff. Perhaps I couldn't write an article like this, DEFINING and introducing terms to denote tendencies, but I have certainly noticed and realized these tendencies in myself and others. on many occasions this helped me avoid hasty decisions.. but not always. sometimes there's other factors, like being short on time, etc. I think assigning "scientific terms" to this (like in this article) helps by making the concepts easily memorized and recalled - at critical moments. Too bad very few people will take this to heart.

  • shooky - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 1:20PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    No offense Laura, but I WANT MY TRUNKSTER BACK!

  • Chris - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 12:55PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Fantasic article, keep more of these coming!

  • Don - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 12:49PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    A fine article. Why can't we have more writers like Ms. Rowley and get Yahoo to dump worthless posters like Suze Orman?

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 12:43PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Another brilliant article Laura. I love the way you are able to connect heart-and-mind. You are a consistently good writer, and unusually insightful. BRAVO!

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 12:41PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    Another great article by Rowley. Again she writes a solid piece that explores not just what people spend their money on , but why they spend it the way they do. Her stuff is always a fresh perspective on money management that goes beyond simple intrest rates and debt calculations. She 's easily the best on yahoo finance.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Thursday, February 21, 2008, 12:35PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Great Read. Much better than the same old "Spend Less, Save More" articles...

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