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Budgeting for Baby

Expecting a new arrival? Learn how to budget for your growing family, including child care, insurance, and parental leave.

Before You Start

  • Dig up your household budget, so you can begin adding new family expenses (including day care) and scaling back on unnecessary spending.
  • Ask family and friends with grown children if you can have their old baby supplies.
  • Review your current life insurance coverage to make sure it's adequate.
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Budgeting for Baby

As the saying goes, "Parents are people who carry pictures in their wallets -- where their money used to be." While the cost of welcoming a new arrival can be about $32,000 for the first two years alone, that doesn't deter many would-be parents from starting a family. Knowing in advance what expenses a new child adds can make your growing family's finances easier to handle and, in many cases, save you a considerable amount of money.
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Know What You Need (and What it Costs)

A new baby makes creating a budget (or adjusting your existing one) a top priority, as conservative estimates peg the cost of raising a child at $9,200 to $10,300 per year to age 17. Many families will spend more than $230,000 over 18 years. As you consider your growing family's fiscal needs, take a look at key areas to address before and after your new child comes home.
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Choose the Best of Your Benefits

If you and your spouse plan to keep working after your child arrives (and you both have company-provided benefit plans), your first baby-planning step is to choose the benefits you need from each plan, at the lowest out-of-pocket cost possible. For instance, if you plan to switch health plans for better and/or less-costly maternity benefits, consider whether the plan you favor offers the pediatric coverage and providers you prefer for infant care.

A managed-care plan, such as a health maintenance organization, can reduce out-of-pocket expenses over a traditional plan, which often requires you to pay at least 20% of care costs. The savings can be substantial for pediatric care, as managed care offers cost incentives for the preventive care children often need, such as well-baby check-ups, inoculations, and treatment of flu and ear infections.

For medical expenses not covered by your health insurance, find out if your firm offers a medical reimbursement account. Your pretax contributions can pay for items such as orthodontic care, insurance deductibles, and eyeglasses. You'll have to determine at the beginning of the year how much to contribute. In addition, you'll lose any money you don't spend.

Expenses: Year by Year

YEAR 1
Items**
Crib, mattress, dresser, and rocker $1,500
Bedding and accessories 300
Clothes 500
Diapers (disposable) 600
Maternity/nursing clothes 1,200
Baby food/formula 900
Nursery misc., high chair, toys 400
Stroller, car seat, baby carrier 300
Miscellaneous items 500
Other
12-week maternity leave (six weeks unpaid) *** 3,461
Day care (40 weeks) 8,000
Term life insurance premiums 1,701
Disability insurance/individual 830
Drawing up a will 1,000
Total: $21,192

YEAR 2*
Items**
Clothes 515
Diapers (disposable) 618
Food 927
Toys 412
Miscellaneous items 515
Other
Day care (40 weeks) 8,240
Insurance premiums 2,121
Total: $13,348

YEAR 3*
Items**
Bed 500
Clothes 530
Food 955
Toys 424
Miscellaneous items 530
Other
Day care (40 weeks) 8,240
Insurance premiums 2,121
Total: $13,348

Your circumstances will vary, but these estimates give you an idea of how much to budget for a new family member, and how costs can shift from year to year. Remember, too, that using employer-sponsored benefits and any tax breaks efficiently -- and shopping for discounts -- can help save substantial dollars for your family.

*Numbers for years 2 and 3 assume 3% annual inflation.
**Retail prices and estimates on all items from Baby Bargains, 2001.
***Based on $30,000 annual income for mother taking leave.
Based on quote from Quicken Insurance Market.
Source: Insure.com, estimated for a couple earning a combined total of $70,000 annually.

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Parental Leave -- Your First Fiscal Test

Your money-saving skills take center stage when you or your spouse (or both of you) take time off to care for your new child. Some companies provide little or no paid maternity leave -- but you still need to pay bills (and give your child the time you both need). Plan ahead by putting as much as possible per paycheck into a conservative account that is easily accessed (important if baby arrives early). Even if you can only save $100 monthly beginning in the second month of pregnancy, finding an account with a 4% rate of return (compounded monthly) would give you $821.40 seven months later.
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Child-Care Costs

Fortunately, there are certain tax breaks that were created especially for parents.

For example, Uncle Sam offers some help with day care bills via tax breaks. The federal income-tax credit for day care expenses permits you to deduct about 20% to 35% of child care expenses (within limits), depending on your income. Some states also offer additional tax breaks for child care costs, so check with your tax or financial advisor for details.

An even better deal, if available, could be an employer-sponsored dependent-care account, where you contribute an annual amount in pretax dollars to be used for qualifying dependent care expenses. But keep in mind that you must decide before the beginning of each year how much you will contribute, and you lose what you don't spend. Also, account contributions reduce dollar-for-dollar your federal child care tax credit, making it impossible for many parents to take advantage of both tax breaks.
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Insure for the Future

Your child's arrival should also prompt you to protect against potential loss of income by obtaining or increasing insurance coverage.

Your greatest chance of losing family income is if you or your spouse is disabled -- making disability insurance a must. With this coverage, try to replace about 60% of your income. The most inexpensive way is to purchase coverage through your company's group policy, if possible. If this isn't an option, consider purchasing an individual disability insurance policy.

Life insurance is your next consideration. Assume you will need coverage equal to 5 to 10 times your family's annual income. If life insurance isn't available through your or your spouse's benefit plan, an affordable alternative is term insurance. (These policies are generally written for a specific time -- when they can be renewed -- and pay benefits if the policyholder dies.) For example, a term policy with $100,000 coverage may cost about $200 in yearly premiums.
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Ensure Your Family Legacy

Though costs can vary from $500 to $2,000, it is especially important now to draw up a will designating a guardian for your child should you and your spouse die together. If you or your spouse dies without a will (intestate), a judge decides who will be appointed your child's guardian. As a result, it could be someone you hadn't wanted as a guardian. Finally, your will should provide for guardianship that applies to both your current and future child or children.

Your will can also be a vehicle for creating a trust to hold your child's inheritance. The trust allows you to specify what you want the money to be used for (such as college education costs) and at what age you want the principal distributed to your child. That way, you can delay distributing money to your child until he or she is old enough to handle it responsibly.
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Summary

  • The cost of welcoming a new child into a family can run more than $32,000 for the first two years alone.
  • If both you and your spouse plan to continue working when your child arrives, consolidate the best and most cost-efficient features from both your employers' benefit plans.
  • Invest ahead of time to pay for expenses during parental leave, as some companies do not replace all or any salary during this time.
  • Child care and education costs average about 10% of a family's pretax income, although tax breaks can help defray this expense.
  • Obtaining life and disability insurance, as well as naming a guardian for your child, are crucial steps in protecting your child's future.

Checklist

  • Increase your household's emergency savings and look into your employer's parental leave policy.
  • Consider your employer's health insurance options and decide which might best fit your needs.
  • Update beneficiary designations on all insurance policies and financial accounts.
  • Update your will and other estate planning strategies.

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  • Yahoo! Finance User - Tuesday, March 25, 2008, 11:48PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    This is a great article, but for my family these figures are way to low. My husband and I live in the Metro DC area, and had our first in September. I would love to find daycare for 8,000 for 40 weeks, but in this area, $12,000 is more appropriate for quality care(and that’s still cheap) And formula/food at $900? My little guy is allergic to milk protein, so our “special formula" costs us about $80 a week! And maternity leave... what’s that? I work for the gov't... no benefits there. I had 12 weeks unpaid, but my husband and I saved our paychecks during those three paycheck months (we are paid by-weekly) while I was pregnant to offset the costs. I agree with most of these posters though, you can’t wait to have enough money to have kids, it will never happen. Just make it work, cause they are so worth it!

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Tuesday, March 25, 2008, 11:29PM ET  Report Abuse

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    While other people consider wal-mart cribs and hand-me-down as raising a generation of cheap-skates, I consider it smart seeing as how it is sooooo expensive to have a child and there are women out there who want children but know their limits. So for you commentors who are so rude as to say things like hand-me-downs and wal-mart items are bad, maybe you should go to some homeless shelters where you can see that some people have it worse. I realized with my first child how expensive things can be even if you and your spouse make above middle income. I thought it was smart of me to save all the baby furniture, clothes for baby, and maternity clothes in case I had a second child. And yes, with my second child I did recieve some used items from family members. People who use the resources that are provided for them in a smart fashion will raise children who can budget as well and not blow every penny they make just to impress people with their costly baby items. It's not cheap-skating. It's doing what is best for your family.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Tuesday, March 25, 2008, 11:26PM ET  Report Abuse

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    My comment is actually for the person who questioned the necessity of life insurance for a baby... I know that in a country such as ours where the child morbidity rate is so low, that it is almost taboo to even think about, most people do not, or cannot consider their child dying; however it happens. If it is from a long term illness, you may have time to financially prepare, but what if your child suddenly passes in an accident, from SIDS, or from a disease such as meningitis (which can be extremely difficult to detect in an infant)? Funerals are EXPENSIVE, especially last minute, and can cost over $5,000 (even when planned in advance), so having life insurance for your child can make an impossible situation, just a little bit easier (and I hate to phrase it that way, because nothing about it is easy). (FYI, health insurance does NOT cover funeral expenses either) In a better case scenario, these child-life policies at the very least can turn over to into adult policies for them to add to, and often can be cashed out upon the child's 18th birthday for college. All the way around, "life insurance for a baby" is a sound investment for the future, and not "just a waste of money."

  • Vinton - Tuesday, March 25, 2008, 11:22PM ET  Report Abuse

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    We have two kids- 4 yrs old and 7 months old. I thought some of the budget numbers were too low- diapers and formula/babyfood. Some also seemed high- maternity clothing. I noticed that the articles mentions the budget prices were from 2001. That seems a bit outdated since I can tell the difference in prices now from when our oldest was an infant (2004). Now we're spending about $60/month for diapers. I breastfeed, but formula would cost about $80/month and babyfood has gone up to about $0.50/jar in most places I've shopped. Don't forget to budget for the increased electric and water if you plan on washing all those cloth diapers! Plan on increases there anyway as babies make lots of dirty laundry. One of our suprise increases was the electric bill- we kept our home more temperate for the baby than we normally would for ourselves and the change in the thermostat made a difference. If you are in a lower income bracket look into WIC for help buying healthy foods for you and baby. Also, if you'll be having baby showers, other people will be spending a lot on things for your baby that you won't need to worry about purchasing yourself.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Tuesday, March 25, 2008, 11:08PM ET  Report Abuse

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    All of these financial considerations are right on. But if everyone was to wait until they could actually afford kids . . . the world would be a lot less populated. We do what we can within dollar constraints. We buy a lot of clothing and shoes for our babies from an auction web site (guess which one). I mean, how much wear and tear can a 3 month old do? Child care is is very expensive (even with tax breaks and dependent care reimbursement) but even worse . . . you can hardly trust anybody with your kids today. We also need to prepare wills or trusts for our blended family. So, it's a lot to think about, but I just tell people to have kids after they've done a lot of what they want to do.

  • bob - Sunday, October 14, 2007, 5:41PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Term life insurance? Why do you need life insurance for a baby? Life insurance is to replace the income of a person or to cover their debts. Getting it for a baby is just a waste of money.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, October 12, 2007, 7:35PM ET  Report Abuse

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    The point of the article is to get people thinking about the total costs of having a baby beyond the typical furniture, crib, diapers, clothes to create a budget suitable for them. Sure, you may get help from family and friends in the form of hand-me-downs and gifts, but when creating a budget you can't assume that you will. And the list is geared towards working mothers, so you may need to buy maternity clothes in order to feel presentable at work. Not everyone can wear their husbands t-shirts for 5 months. (And that's assuming that the husband is a bigger size than the wife!) I didn't buy special nursing clothes, but I did have to buy more shirts that were more convenient for nursing including nursing bras. And you don't necessarily go back to your prepregnancy size, and definitely not right away, so the idea of "maternity" clothes should also include new post-pregnancy clothes. Furthermore, while I am all for stay-at-home moms, it's not for everyone and many women enjoy working and shouldn't be pressured to give that up for children. What about stay-at-home dads?

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, October 12, 2007, 3:32PM ET  Report Abuse

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    All I can say is, I'm freaking glad I don't live in some of your households. I'd be confined to my Walmart crib and sleeping in third-generation cloth diapers. To the people who say raising a child shouldn't be expensive, please don't have kids. We don't need another generation of cheap-skates!

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Friday, October 12, 2007, 2:35PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Having 2 children, these estimates are a pretty good ballpark. For those of you who are aghast that the numbers don't match your spending to the penny, pull your head out of the sand. Breast feed? Great, pull that number out of the calculation. Mom staying home, add/subtract the difference between salary and daycare. Live in Boston or Topeka, you should know whether you'll spend $5,000 or $15,000. I do agree with the post saying that the give-back from fewer entertainment costs could be factored in--we noticed that right away with child #1. Regardless, having a child is like doing a building project on your house. It takes three times as long and costs twice as much as you think it will. Fewer trips to Home Depot though...

  • dk - Thursday, September 27, 2007, 5:16PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 1/5

    This article much assumes that everyone live their life extravagantly (and a working mother). Hand me downs, home cooked (healthy) meals, good quality used furniture, easily drives the cost down. I don't have a kid yet, I am about to have one in 6-7 months, I seriously doubt these calculations.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Thursday, September 27, 2007, 4:58PM ET  Report Abuse

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    To break any ties about the math, ccpf11 has it right. A typical money market account would pay about 4% annually, which would give you about $710 at the end of seven months. The example in the story presumes you are earning 4% each month, which you can't do without significant downside risk. Otherwise, I think the article provides a nice framework for thinking about the financial realities of parenthood.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Thursday, September 27, 2007, 2:18PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 3/5

    The point of this article is to budget for a new child, and start people thinking. Weather you choose to breastfeed or not, choose daycare or not, there are expenses associated with having a child. The debate on how to raise that child is not the issue.

  • Craig - Thursday, September 27, 2007, 2:03PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Article forgets one of the most important expenses, savings for college, from birth!!! Yes people, start savings now, college has been outpacing inflation for many years but with vehicles like 529 accounts and compounding interest, one can easily pay for college up front...even private school...run the numbers of $2500-$5000 deposit/year for 18 years @ 10% interest... you will be amazed

  • sentimentum - Thursday, September 27, 2007, 10:00AM ET  Report Abuse

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    The only thing kids are good for is sticking you in a nursing home against your will. Better off buying a Ferrari than spending 230 grand on the sharp spear of a thankless child.

  • the hammer - Thursday, September 27, 2007, 7:41AM ET  Report Abuse

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    Do not let anticipated costs drive your decision to have children. This article completely neglects support of family, church and friends in material goods and other areas - the posts about ways to cut costs are more helpful than the article itself. And the more children you have, it doesn't have to increase exponentially. We are blessed to have four and did it on one income. I have two in college and we're doing fine with NO college loans. Young marrieds - begin living on one income from the beginning, or start if you're not doing it now. It is the rut of casual debt and living an expensive lifefstyle that restricts some from having bigger families or more importantly, having mom at home for ANY number of kids. Many posts here echo this - eating out regularly, cable, a new expensive car. Living frugally will eliminate for you and your kids many of the financial problems that are routinely written about on this site.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Thursday, September 20, 2007, 6:16PM ET  Report Abuse

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    This is excellent, in that it show that the OVERWHELMING MAJORITY of the cost associated with children is daycare -- which is eliminated if one of the parents stays at home with their child. People used to have a lot more kids than we generally have today on much less. For instance, my grandmother was one of eleven kids who grew up in rural Nebraska during the dust bowls and great depression. They made it just fine. Now, they did not have cable television, or television at all, or internet, or new clothes and jewelry from the mall every month, or Starbucks coffee every morning, and other such "necessities." But, they were happy and survived just fine. We don't need daycare, folks. Cut that expense, stay at home with the kids, and have a few more while you're at it. It is a great, great joy indeed!

  • MD MBA - Thursday, September 20, 2007, 2:04PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Living in Washington DC I found these numbers to be too low for my area (particularly the daycare line item), but if you know the cost of living in your area compared to the national average you can figure out what your own expenses would be. The math is totally wrong on the return on $100 over seven months. To get $821 you would need to earn 4% per month for 8 months or a rate of 48% per year. If this account exists, someone please let me know.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Thursday, September 20, 2007, 1:25PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Apparently no one lives in New England... The cheapest daycare within 30 miles in this area is $14,500 for 40 weeks.

  • Ed - Thursday, September 20, 2007, 1:17PM ET  Report Abuse

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    My wife and I had a son three months ago. I have news for the posters below who believe these figures are overinflated: You are extremely naive. You may be able to chip away at some of these costs. For example, we pay $640 -- not $800 -- per month for childcare. (But that was the most affordable, reasonable quality, care that we could find in Pittsburgh, PA.) The argument that you can go without material possessions to keep costs down misses the point that most of the itemized costs listed above are essentials (food, clothing, bedding, healthcare). If you think these costs are shocking, yet are considering having children, I recommend that you look into actual costs for your family. How much does daycare cost in your town? Get quotes and look at the quality of care you receive for that price. How will a child affect your insurance premiums? Consult your HR Department. How much does a crib that meets current safety codes cost? Visit a children's store. What does a can of powdered baby formula cost and how long will that can last? Visit the supermarket. I believe you will then find that these costs are not inflated at all.

  • Yahoo! Finance User - Thursday, September 20, 2007, 10:16AM ET  Report Abuse

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    My wife plans on "retiring" after the first child. I make under $50,000 a year, but we don't see any problem making ends meet with a child. If so many people weren't so materially obsessed, this country might have closer families and more polite and considerate people in general.

  • What r u looking at? - Thursday, September 20, 2007, 10:07AM ET  Report Abuse

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    keesey2003, you are dead wrong on day care costs. I live in Iowa and I can assure you that the day care costs are accurate. We pay roughly $600 per month or $30 per day. That translates to $7200 per year. Do not confuse everyone with your 'true cost' line, I am not paying 80% of my day care upfront. I can deduct 20% of our day care on our income taxes, I do not just receive 20% back as you naively state.

  • komala - Thursday, September 6, 2007, 4:31PM ET  Report Abuse

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    article is excellent.

  • IlyaA - Thursday, September 6, 2007, 12:46PM ET  Report Abuse

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    One additional very important planning item that was left out by the author for some reason is the college planning. I believe early years are the best years to start saving for college, as you don't have the expenses of dance lessons, music lessons, school supplies or expenses on extracurricular activities that older (school-age) kids would encounter. I figured, not counting food and clothing, that we would need to spend about $12,000 a year per kid until age 16 or so. Instead of plunking $1500 into a fancy crib and another $1200 into maternity clothes suggested by this article, we got both cribs as used hand-offs from friends, and my wife wore my T-shirts as her favorite "maternity clothes". The saved money ( some extra) went into our kids 529 college funds. Me and my wife plan to continue to put aside $12,000 per child for the first 5 years of life for each of our 2 kids, and that money flows directly into their 529 college plans. I believe everyone should at least consider putting college savings on their budget, and that should be higher priority than the fancy crib/dresser/rocker.

  • christopher - Thursday, September 6, 2007, 10:39AM ET  Report Abuse

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    My wife and I and close friends that had a child in the same timeframe found that we acctualy had more money in the bank at the end of the month during the first few months of the baby's life. We attributed this to less expenses from dining out and entertainment... you simply don;t have time or energy for these things in teh first few months...

  • Daniel - Friday, August 31, 2007, 3:02PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Horrible article. As others have noted, extremely inflated figures to try to validate the article. The cost for day care is just outright wrong. See this article: http://www.usatoday.com/money/perfi/general/2006-04-18-child-costs-usat_x.htm The highest annual cost is NJ at roughly $9k. For 40 weeks - as this article calculates [not sure why they use 40 weeks in year 2 & 3], this cost would be $6,850. However, as this article stated, you deduct it from your taxes so your true cost at most would be 80% of this, or $5,475. There are plenty of ways to cut costs and you don't need to everything brand new.

  • Fantasy Sports Nut - Friday, August 31, 2007, 9:51AM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 5/5

    Very good article. They call it a budget for a reason. It doesn't mean that is what you are actually going to spend. Everyone rushes to look at the bottom line number, but they really do not look at the items in the budget. For instance, some may not have to worry about the cost of maternity leave or even daycare. Some may already have children where they have saved clothes and furniture. The article provides a nice list of things that some new parents may not have thought of in regards to spending money. I have a hard time faulting an article that is for the purpose of trying to help others.

  • Rocheal A - Monday, July 23, 2007, 2:26PM ET  Report Abuse

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    This seems extremely unreasonable. No wonder people are freaking about having babies now adays. If this were the first thing I saw, I'd freak too. This is rediculous, I mean who spends over a thousand dollars on maternity clothes?! Come on...

  • jc - Tuesday, July 17, 2007, 12:57PM ET  Report Abuse

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    Budgeting 21k in the first year? This seems a little on the side of unreasonable. I noticed the starred: estimated for a couple earning a combined total of $70,000 annually. With housing and food, how does a couple making 70k combined afford to spend nearly a third of their income on the first year of their child? I am expecting my first, and doing it solo. I make nearly 70k and I sure can't.

  • Lew - Tuesday, July 17, 2007, 10:49AM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 4/5

    This is actually a good article. The judgement here is to err on the side of caution. Overcompensate because it's better to have too much than not enough. True enough this shouldn't be a stressful situation but in this day and age of parents killing children or mistreating children anything that can eliminate stressors should be accepted in stride.

  • JOHNW - Sunday, July 8, 2007, 7:25PM ET  Report Abuse

    • Overall: 2/5

    Good ideas for what you will need to get like life/disability insurance and updating your will but the costs are crazy. Breast feeding, going to garage sales and having a baby shower will cover most of the first year for a fraction of the cost. Having a baby is a change to your family but shouldn't bankrupt you.

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