Her husband is GC and makes a very good salary especially for the Hampton Roads area. I know they have at least one and perhaps more children.
I've met her at SH meetings before, she's a nice person but it isn't as if being corporate secretary at a regional bank is the same thing as being corporate secretary for GM or Exxon (where usually it is an attorney if not the GC). The job isn't that difficult, and requires practically no banking knowledge.
Again I'm guessing she left to raise the kid(s), nothing really to see here.