well investor relations is pretty quick to answer email (less than 18 hrs) regarding my question I had emailed in:
"If ING would not pay the coupon, ING would give specific notice. Please consult the prospectus for the security you mentioned for more details on the deferral notice terms and conditions. A link to this information is below.
I have read the prospectus (many many times) and feel that dividends are safe at this point plus I really feel the sell off of IGK, ISF etc were based on the perception that a payment would not be made (sooner) ~ but I'm sure if they stated payment were not coming we'd be seeing a much larger drop.