It warms my heart to see the overflowing sympathy you have for your fellow man.
I will say this: I may not agree with many of the people on this board, BUT, I do respect them for their opinion (and even more often for the insightful concrete evidence they post supporting their opinion). For the purpose of making money (which is why "most" of us are here) all to often people butt heads in an attempt to sway one's opinion, or to educate the other in order to prevent them from losing further.
You Sir, are neither. I'd like to know...
Were you one of those people burning the American flag while simultaineously stomping on your selective service form during the Vietnam war?
If you're as confident as you are apparently ignorant, why don't you put your money where your mouth is before posting on this board?