...or do you remember years ago when you would have to call around to see what was happening? Make several phone calls or wait for call from your friends? Now all you have to do is check the events you have been invited to by your friends, OR just post "hey whats going on tonight?" and either ALL your friends or the group(s) you want the message to go to will see that you are looking for something to do. YOu don't have to wait for a text message from anyone, you just check you event calendar to see what is happening. Very easy, very fast, very efficient. This is how people communicate today. Facebook is the standard. This is the new normal. Get with it.