Dealing with you is a lot like dealing with a child with MS who spills a drink on your carpet. You are irritated and have to clean up the mess, but you don't blame the child -- after all, it's the disability that caused the problem. The child gets your sympathy.
Of course you wouldn't.... you haven't dealt with a large group of these brave kids like I have. It has been my annual privilege to assist a group of 20 wonderful young men attend summer camp and serve as their camp counselor.