Creper, Again, thanks for the suggestions and concerns. We have been through numerous counseling sessions with her and she on her own. All has been discussed from self-esteem problems to depression. All involved came to the conclusion that she has been allowed to be lazy. As someone has stated here, we have been told to stop giving and start demanding. I am beginning to believe the 12 step program may be the way to go. It is about 12 steps from the front door to the curb.