I almost forgot, you want to tell her that the reason why it happened was that she hasn't been giving you enough. Tell her that you perform better as a trader when you are very well satisfied and she has to step it up several notches.
Just tell her to get a part time job. Also, tell her that you won't be able to take her on vacation with you this year and maybe next. Lastly, tell her to do her clothes shopping at the Goodwill store. That should take care of it.
I see you in all over these message boards with the same message. You have got to have the worse timing ever. I would get into another line of work. You have terrible instincts. Do opposite of what first pops into your head and your trading will improve immensely.