The entire species must be considered, at this point, to be severely design-flawed. Seems the much-ballyhooed "creator" missed a few key elements. Like (specifically): My father studied metallurgy, when I was born he passed NONE of that information along; when I went to school I had to learn everything HE learned ALL OVER again. Like (generally): Each new organism has to continuously RELEARN everything, every time! And that's just ONE example.
As far as your deep doo-doo problem in re hot flashes, the social convention (invented by mediterranean religious cults whose roots are in mud huts) whereby men are forced to co-habit one-on-one with females is too seriously flawed and logically deficient to deal with on this little message board.
I find screaming at the top of my lungs, "Shut the fuhck up, you stupid cow" to be very effective.
i'm just trying to understand why females can have hot flashes and we are expected to treat them with space, understanding and sympathy, but if we as men go through a spell of "cool pause" due to
stress, exhaustion, and general disgust with life in general we are considered as being inconsiderate toward their feelings. tia.