Success or not is really in your own eyes and not others.For example, you sacrafice with good food tasting so you can look good in your dresses. Good choices or not should really determine by you and not others.I choose to be close to my near family members. It is my choice in life. Some might think I am a loser but I am okay in my own eyes.Women in today's world have to make the same choices everyday. It is really depending on yourself. Trust and value yourself. Not by others' eyes and mouth.