Try the upscale gasoline refueling station at one of our upscale groceries, and invest about 2 mins, and speak to no one. Or, you can pull off the highway (avoiding all road debris), and look for the long sought-after Tesla Stations, get in line, hook up for 25 mins for 3/4 of a tank, all the while smelling the deep frier at the local steak and lube, or dominoes, or similar. And make new friends at those non-brookstone/non-high-end coffee shops. And hope that no angry rich-person hater doesn't key your Tesla S while you are inside. Which, by the way, is not under warrantee, and may require a stranger/tesla ranger come to your home and get to know your spouse.
Did you ever play outside in the dirt and grass as a kid or were you sheltered indoors only playing video games? There are far too many people afraid of dirt - due to the marketing campaigns of companies selling you their sanitizers.