It is not possible for polio to be contracted from its vaccine. Vaccine-derived polio (cVDPV) does exist but not in the form you claim to have happened. The small risk of cVDPVs pales in significance to the tremendous public health benefits associated with OPV.
Many governing bodies now have stipulations that if parents don't vaccinate their children, they can't access public child facilities like schools and child support.
Its a shame that misinformation has led to some people being forced to understand that they are living in a society.