This Mom Wants Others To Learn From Her Story After She Went Septic Because Doctors Didn't Believe Her
Breastfeeding may seem straightforward, but from chapped nipples to stubborn babies who refuse to latch on, it comes with a list of possible difficulties and complications — some of which can be quite serious.
In April 2020, new mom Tyler-Marie Oates was visiting her parents' home when she began developing flu-like symptoms. Initially, she shrugged it off, assuming the fatigue came from all the challenges of having a newborn. However, when her fever skyrocketed to 103.8 degrees and the body aches, chills, and headache started pounding, she went to a hospital.
A sneaking suspicion set in, and difficulties pumping led her to believe she had mastitis, an inflammation in the breast due to infection, which she recorded on her emergency room admissions paperwork.
Unfortunately for Tyler-Marie, she was early in the development of her clogged milk duct, and her breast had not yet become swollen or red. So, doctors ran blood work, two CT scans, two MRIs of her spine to check for possible complications with her previous epidural, and a COVID test. Everything came back negative and, as this was the early days of the pandemic, her COVID test results would need another day to process. So, seeing no reason to believe her intuition, doctors moved the three-week postpartum mother to the COVID unit for the night.
"Overnight, I began to get worse and started spiking a high fever again," Tyler-Marie told BuzzFeed. "The next morning, I noticed my boob had started turning red, was swollen, and extremely full. When I would pump, hardly anything would come out, and if it did, it was blood. There was a crazy amount of pressure, it almost felt as if my boob was going to explode."
Now under the care of the postpartum doctors, Tyler-Marie pumped her breast for three days in an effort to suck out the infection. Then, she was allowed to go home...but she came back two days later, septic again.
At this point, doctors agreed that she would either need to pump the clots out of her body or undergo surgery. "I was already away from my daughter for almost [a week] and was determined to get back to her. So, I took pain meds and with the help of my boyfriend and the amazing lactation nurses there, I pumped and got it out," she said.
Tyler-Marie passed between 10 and 15 clots ranging in different sizes, shapes, and colors. She took a video of one, and over 9.5 million people watched with large eyes as the clip circulated TikTok.
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